Hi guys I want to talk about being confident. Me personally growing up i had very lo self-esteem. I didn't love my self. So I thought what was the point of dressing up trying to look pretty when I felt so ugly. I never wore thing like: Dresses, skirts, purse's, sandals, or shorts. My closet only consist of pants, capris, and plain t shirts. I was closed off hiding myself from the world. Not anymore. I'[m not saying that I'[m 100% confident in my self, because I'm not. I'[m to the point were I Don't let words or people opinions of me bring me down anymore because, I love myself now.
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We live in a society that judges us for how we dress, and if you ain't rocking designer clothes you broke, and a bum. People don't know what's going on in your home. They judge by what they see, not by what they know. If you don't love your self It's so easy to hate yourself. You built your confidents up your whole life, and its so easy for 1 person to come in your life for 1 minute and tear it down. Be you! Embrace who you are flaws in all.
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It took me a long time to get were I am at now. I still get talked about to this day, but I don't care, because at the end of the day whether I am doing bad or good people still go talk. Self-confidence is extremely important in almost every aspect of our lives, yet so many people struggle to find it. Sadly, this can be a vicious circle: people who lack self-confidence can find it difficult to become successful.
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Love yourself, girl, or nobody will
Though you're a woman, I don't know how you deal
With all the pressure to look impressive and go out in heels; I feel for you
Killing yourself to find a man that'll kill for you
You wake up, put makeup on, stare in the mirror
But it's clear that you can't face what's wrong; no need to fix
What God already put his paint brush on; your roommate yelling
"Why you gotta take so long?" What it's like to have a crooked smile
J Cole ~ Crooked smile <3
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We live in a society that judges us for how we dress, and if you ain't rocking designer clothes you broke, and a bum. People don't know what's going on in your home. They judge by what they see, not by what they know. If you don't love your self It's so easy to hate yourself. You built your confidents up your whole life, and its so easy for 1 person to come in your life for 1 minute and tear it down. Be you! Embrace who you are flaws in all.
![](https://fbcdn-sphotos-f-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-xfp1/v/t1.0-9/10363744_717628718280954_1516355684980676688_n.jpg?oh=6f358e813b34c20c935b734563370ee0&oe=5483F0EB&__gda__=1419977570_d820b9a628f930fba64b972e092f1460)
It took me a long time to get were I am at now. I still get talked about to this day, but I don't care, because at the end of the day whether I am doing bad or good people still go talk. Self-confidence is extremely important in almost every aspect of our lives, yet so many people struggle to find it. Sadly, this can be a vicious circle: people who lack self-confidence can find it difficult to become successful.
![](https://fbcdn-sphotos-c-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-xpa1/v/t1.0-9/10609486_769230823120743_524676547536546763_n.jpg?oh=0f227c2166d717c39a91fb8eec1ed5ce&oe=54D06B2A&__gda__=1419047703_89012f1b540a48212d4515b47654c148)
Love yourself, girl, or nobody will
Though you're a woman, I don't know how you deal
With all the pressure to look impressive and go out in heels; I feel for you
Killing yourself to find a man that'll kill for you
You wake up, put makeup on, stare in the mirror
But it's clear that you can't face what's wrong; no need to fix
What God already put his paint brush on; your roommate yelling
"Why you gotta take so long?" What it's like to have a crooked smile
J Cole ~ Crooked smile <3
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