This week meaningful Monday topic we well be discussing haters, fake friends, bullies and ex!! What are they and what are they're motives? First you have to learn difference.
Haters - People that say rude things to you ONLY because they are jealous of you.
In all reality, they wish they had what you had but they don't.
Fake friends - People that pretend to befriend you, when they don't like you at all.
They talk on the phone with you, hang out, text etc.
They are usually the first to spill gossip about you, or betray you.
They may even try to influence you to do things that would inflict harm amongst you (ex. drugs, drinking, promiscuous lifestyle, illegal activities etc.)
There are many different reasons why one would do this.
Ex. They don't know how to be loyal to someone (due to their own destructive past) so they dish out only what they know, They feel the comfort of knowing someone is not doing any thing with their lives just like them et..
Bullies - People that are usually (insecure about themselves).
Unlike Haters, Bullies can be both verbally and physically abusive.
What can you do to stop the hate? The best thing you can do is just ignore. Feeding into there petty and insicure ways is not worth the drama. It will only make things worse a but eventually most haters lose the hate to fuel their fire. and when it comes down to the fake friend the bully and the Ex those kind of people are just better left where they are cut them off. They can't hurt what's not near them start dropping and you will see the difference.
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