Times are changing women are now turning the tables, and are becoming the providers (bread winners) in the household. Some men have a problem with a woman making more money than them in a relationship, and as a man it can kill a mans pride. So let me ask you this, is it still true that the US in a relationship still means team when the woman is the bread winner? Do some women throw the fact that they earn more then their man up in arguments?
The man has been the leader in the household since we can remember. So, is tradition changing or are our men not living up to the true standards of being a man? Black men have many obstacles, and legal restraints that are mind boggling. Child Support and the typical racial profiling is a tough thing to deal with. The legal system is winning, and trying to brand all of us with at least a charge on your record. We look at it as just a charge but that charge can eliminate you from certain job opportunities, which puts you in another category when you get a record so be mindful. I'm happy that our sisters are setting the bar high for our brothers, and hopefully the success of our sisters will motivate our brothers to do better.
Dont get it twisted its not every mans fault that his woman makes more than he does; but a man was raised to be the head of his house hold, and the king of his castle but lately the women have been the grinders. Remember when we went to school and laughed and joked with the girls? While we were failing they were getting their work done. I've noticed when most women set a goal, it doesn't matter how long it will take them. They will complete that goal that they set. Even hustlers today notice the change and they realize that what they are doing isn't conducive to the home. You can't tell your son to be the best drug dealer he can be so that messes with them mentally. As men we have to find what motivates us and shoot for the stars.
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: Tyree Miles
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