The emotional roller coaster in the amusement park of our minds can really take us for a ride that we may not be ready for. When you meet someone and your spending that time getting to know them you emotions are like a seatbelt, strapped tight to you heart as the time flies and this emotional roller coaster is going up it's like you on a high, the longer things go well the higher you get. Things start to simmer and cruise smoothly you get a feeling that this maybe the person for you, but then you have to remember that every roller coaster has that steep fall, they may get another number, or even have a baby with another person, or even communicating with a former lover that maybe incarcerated. The downward spiral is like a serious head rush, you start to feel unsure and question your choices and sometimes you even question your self esteem. Every good thing doesn't necessarily come to an end
but it will be a time where you will need to take a self evaluation, checks and balances are a wake up call that is needed with dealing with relationships today, it's not about who can satisfy that sexual itch but it's about who you can have a mental connection and who you can grow with, with technology spoiling us we would rather text than hear a voice, simplicity is taken for granted in relationships, walking and holding hands having a good conversation has been replaced with sexting and Instagram likes, when was the last time you and your mate had a good conversation without scrolling thru your cell phone? Bring back the essence of getting to know you mate and your roller coaster ride can be a smooth one especially if you have the same goals and beliefs. Never forget the little things that drew you to ur mate, think outside the box and dont just think about THE BOX!
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